Sometimes people come to therapy not to inquire. Rather, they come to declare. So it is with this man. He speaks of a woman. “She’s it for me,” he says. “This is it for me.” He’s not deciding whether to explore the relationship. He’s in it. He’s gone and jumped in the deep end. Just like that. Now, if this guy valued living sensibly, carefully, and conservatively, then, … [Read more...]